Schema Therapy
Schema therapy gets to the core of a person’s psychology – the lens through which they see & make sense of things.
What is Schema Therapy?
Schema Therapy is a form of psychotherapy that helps people who are stuck in recurring & unhelpful patterns of emotion, beliefs & behaviour. It provides a way of understanding our reactions & making sense of how these may have been shaped by past experiences. Schema therapy goes into more depth than traditional cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). It tends to be a longer-term therapy suited to people with more complex difficulties.
Recognizing emotional needs
The approach recognises that people’s emotional needs in childhood can go unmet for different reasons. While needs are clearly unmet with experiences like abuse & neglect, sometimes difficulties can result from other situations: For example, a young person’s needs may be poorly matched by the care available to them, even when no harm was intended.
What are ‘schema’?
This therapy is based on the idea that we grow up developing a set of ‘schema’ - these are ways of viewing the world & beliefs which shape the way that we end up thinking, behaving & relating to others as adults. We can think of schema a bit like lenses through which we view the world & which organise our responses.
Understanding our schema patterns
Becoming aware of our schema & how we manage them is the first step to change. I’ll help you identify your main schema patterns. We’ll work together to make sense of how these have developed in your life & led to different ways of coping. You might be invited to complete some questionnaires to help with this. We’ll also explore how different facets of yourself are involved in how you function.
What does schema therapy involve?
Schema Therapy is a talking therapy that combines aspects of Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy, Gestalt therapy & psychoanalytical thinking into one form. Drawing on a range of methods, this therapy aims to help you address the impact of having different needs unmet in your childhood. It involves techniques that enable you to explore & change the patterns that you are in. For example, this might involve having a go at different activities & exercises to help different aspects of yourself have a voice. We’ll work on managing these different parts together so that you can feel more whole & balanced as a person.
I’ll support you in gently challenging unhelpful schema. The professional therapeutic relationship that we develop is a particularly important component for healing in this way of working.
LEARN MORE ABOUT SCHEMA
What are the 5 different types of schema?
Feeling disconnected & rejected in your upbringing - might lead to feeling flawed, being socially isolated, or expecting to be abandoned.
Not being able to flourish as an individual in the past - might lead to a sense of deep failure & being very dependent on others.
Having to focus on the needs of others as a child - might mean you still tend to sacrifice your needs & put others’ needs above your own.
Having to watch out for threats & harm as you grow up - may lead to being very vigilant in adulthood. You might be ‘on guard’ against being vulnerable, be a bit of a perfectionist, or tend to hide your emotions.
If no one helped you learn to set limits - you might find it difficult to set limits as an adult. You may tend to struggle with self-control & feel entitled.
FAQS
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Schema Therapy is suited to people with longstanding recurring difficulties in their emotions & relationships. Or for people who want to explore using a deeper approach to their difficulties than that offered by shorter-term therapies.
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It won’t suit people who are not wanting to explore their past experiences or those who are seeking more rapid solutions to their problems. Your therapist will discuss whether this approach might assist you or whether another approach might be more advisable.
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At least a year or longer is not uncommon, depending on the individual & the nature of the difficulties.
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Schema therapy is proven effective for a variety of long-term mental health issues & complications. Research has shown it can help people with a number of mental health difficulties including anxiety, depression & PTSD as well as people who may at times been given the label of ‘borderline personality disorder’. As a relatively new therapy, (some 30 years old) is has not been researched as much as therapies like CBT. More information about the evidence is available here.
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Find out more on the Schema Therapy Institute website
Or read: Reinventing Your Life: the bestselling breakthrough programme to end negative behaviour & feel great, by Young, Klosko & Beck (2019).
Get Started
I offer a free no-obligation 15-minute telephone call to discuss your needs, & answer any questions you may have. It’s also a chance for us to see if we are a good ‘fit’ to work together. Please feel free to get in touch to arrange this.